Sunday, December 28, 2008

快樂的家庭 Happy family

現在我才知道快樂又溫暖的家庭是很不容易維持。它需要大家互相幫助、信任、愛護、互相鼓勵、互相體諒。做個成員要冷靜,不可以動不動就發脾氣。儅某個成員做出很不對的事情時。每一關心家人的人都會被牽連,傷害。快樂的家庭可以像一個泡泡。在空中里飃呀飃呀。可是好景不长在,过了一会儿就"POP"的一聲,不見了。吵架是一種發洩管道也是讓家人更了解彼此。最遭的是,沒有愛,沒有恨;不高興,也不傷心。

被人家疼,是幸福的;疼人家,人家又知道,是更幸福的。
最慘的家庭就是破裂的家庭。只是再修也無法把破跡修補了(Once broken,considered sold) 的道理。

我現在終于理會一個道理。那就是珍惜。生老病死,都是每個人都必須經驗的。昨天是過去,今天是個禮物,明天是個秘密。雖然不知到未來是這麽樣的,但如果我們珍惜眼見的東西,就算失去了也有一段美麗的回憶。
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我知道,年輕人,在這個時段時,很想自由。
When the parents want to pick their child, it is unavoidable that their friends would gossip or say something bad. "Dependent", "Mummy's boy" , " Dadddy's girl","Dont know how to take bus/MRT", "少爺仔", "千金”。I understand how most of these people feelings. They feel embrassed in front of their friends because they feel like small kids in front of their friends. Some of these friends who make fun of them do not understand how they feel. They get caged up like a bird and still might have to bear these sufferings.

>>However some teacher do not like parents to always come to school.They also feel pressured and are suspicious of the student competency for being so dependent. SOME teachers ONLY...

However being a caged boy/girl is also not a bad thing. As I metioned early, cherish .The time travelling from school to home can create a stronger bonding within families.Especially to be loved, is such a sweet thing.This also proves that (your) parents are very concerned about you that they can sacrifice their lunch time/ free time.

On the contrary,one must also learn to be independent,right? I suggest that some days parents come and pick you up if they can.Other days ,travel back home by yourself. Othewise ,we will be forever stuck in one stage.( So do not laugh at your friends again.)

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Sec 1 Camp meeting

Today, of course you would know, I just a calafare, came to the meeting.

Saw N,M,XB. Of course , they are CCA leader and some even SL cum CL. I only just a volunteer.
Went to IT resource room, didnt know who was BW or ET. Especially , their humorous side left a deep impression on me. "I know some of you are very Rah Rah....." All those slang lingos.

Whenever someone spouted some wrong things, BW will sit next to them.. Hahaz
Sec 1 looking foward to see you!

Friday, December 19, 2008

Sec 1 Orientation

Woke up so early today.
Wore my tie , put on my blazer,and leather shoes and when to school.
As you know I am surely laughed at for wearing all these so early. Saw my dutiesmates, didnt expect C to appear as you know , he didnt bought any pants , and waited for this day to have discount.To top it on ,C wasnt on the duty list.But,being helpful, he borrowed S long pants . Was quite happy to see everyone as we didnt met up during the holidays.

Started my duty in the hall with a senior, "babysiting" 1T1. Some were quite early but other were quite late. Finally,we went out of the hall because Principal was speaking. Helped the late parents and ushered both their child and them into the hall.

Later,we went back to the classroom. As S led Sec 1 to the wrong classroom, S had to U-turn, so Y told me to look out for sec 1T1s. Being bargayro, I stood at the stairwall and became a information counter ,guiding parents.Of course I 逃避 all those clasroom office work.

After that , still being info count. I escort parents and more prefect join us. M and me chatted.I also walked to Uniform counter. Exercised walking here and there ..

Finally,debrief. Everything was smooth...blah.... I had some suggestions but didnt voice out. I ,being the info counter must help to 搬 bottles and had to be scolded. If my Info C. wasnt there would any prefect throw their duty to guide parents. So next time there should be InfoC. No offence...