現在我才知道快樂又溫暖的家庭是很不容易維持。它需要大家互相幫助、信任、愛護、互相鼓勵、互相體諒。做個成員要冷靜，不可以動不動就發脾氣。儅某個成員做出很不對的事情時。每一關心家人的人都會被牽連，傷害。快樂的家庭可以像一個泡泡。在空中里飃呀飃呀。可是好景不长在，过了一会儿就"POP"的一聲,不見了。吵架是一種發洩管道也是讓家人更了解彼此。最遭的是，沒有愛，沒有恨；不高興，也不傷心。
被人家疼，是幸福的；疼人家，人家又知道，是更幸福的。
最慘的家庭就是破裂的家庭。只是再修也無法把破跡修補了(Once broken,considered sold) 的道理。
我現在終于理會一個道理。那就是珍惜。生老病死，都是每個人都必須經驗的。昨天是過去，今天是個禮物，明天是個秘密。雖然不知到未來是這麽樣的，但如果我們珍惜眼見的東西，就算失去了也有一段美麗的回憶。
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我知道，年輕人，在這個時段時，很想自由。
When the parents want to pick their child, it is unavoidable that their friends would gossip or say something bad. "Dependent", "Mummy's boy" , " Dadddy's girl","Dont know how to take bus/MRT", "少爺仔", "千金”。I understand how most of these people feelings. They feel embrassed in front of their friends because they feel like small kids in front of their friends. Some of these friends who make fun of them do not understand how they feel. They get caged up like a bird and still might have to bear these sufferings.
>>However some teacher do not like parents to always come to school.They also feel pressured and are suspicious of the student competency for being so dependent. SOME teachers ONLY...
However being a caged boy/girl is also not a bad thing. As I metioned early, cherish .The time travelling from school to home can create a stronger bonding within families.Especially to be loved, is such a sweet thing.This also proves that (your) parents are very concerned about you that they can sacrifice their lunch time/ free time.
On the contrary,one must also learn to be independent,right? I suggest that some days parents come and pick you up if they can.Other days ,travel back home by yourself. Othewise ,we will be forever stuck in one stage.( So do not laugh at your friends again.)
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